“Ah women; we always want to give people the benefit of the doubt and, since we choose girlfriends based on who will be honest with us, tell it like it is and help us be our best selves.
It’s only natural that we want boyfriends who do the same but it’s that mentality that enables us to brush off some pretty awful things a partner can say”.
“Remember that someone who loves you chooses what he says to you based on the goal of always making you feel loved, supported, encouraged, inspired, accepted and brave, so, if your boyfriend says something hurtful, you can’t write it off as him just being honest, a man who really loves you will find a way to send every message in the most loving, tender, sweetest package possible”.
Here are things a man who truly loves you will never say to you.
It’s your family or me, a man who truly loves you will always want you to be happy and won’t tell you to choose between him and your family and will love your family no matter how bad they are.
Maybe you should quit, he will always advise you to keep on trying to achieve your dreams and never give up.
It’s your job or me, someone who loves you will want you to have everything that makes you happy and something that empowers you.
You should be more like so and so, a man who loves you will be proud of you no matter your flaws and won’t want to change anything about you or make you want to be like anybody else.
“You should have more realistic goals when a man loves you, he thinks you’re capable of anything, he sees greatness in everything you do, he has possibly unrealistic ideas of what you can achieve because you’re just so impressive to him”.
You are too fat, no sensible man will want to make his woman insecure and feel less attractive instead he will find a sweet way to pass his message across.
It’s only natural that we want boyfriends who do the same but it’s that mentality that enables us to brush off some pretty awful things a partner can say”.
“Remember that someone who loves you chooses what he says to you based on the goal of always making you feel loved, supported, encouraged, inspired, accepted and brave, so, if your boyfriend says something hurtful, you can’t write it off as him just being honest, a man who really loves you will find a way to send every message in the most loving, tender, sweetest package possible”.
Here are things a man who truly loves you will never say to you.
It’s your family or me, a man who truly loves you will always want you to be happy and won’t tell you to choose between him and your family and will love your family no matter how bad they are.
Maybe you should quit, he will always advise you to keep on trying to achieve your dreams and never give up.
It’s your job or me, someone who loves you will want you to have everything that makes you happy and something that empowers you.
You should be more like so and so, a man who loves you will be proud of you no matter your flaws and won’t want to change anything about you or make you want to be like anybody else.
“You should have more realistic goals when a man loves you, he thinks you’re capable of anything, he sees greatness in everything you do, he has possibly unrealistic ideas of what you can achieve because you’re just so impressive to him”.
You are too fat, no sensible man will want to make his woman insecure and feel less attractive instead he will find a sweet way to pass his message across.
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